Wow, I can't believe this year is over. It has been a very different year than I expected. Last year I wrote this, so I thought I would do it again. Hope you enjoy a little overview of my year.
1. What did you do in 2012 that you have never done before?
-lived with a Muslim Indian family of 8 in a 2 room house
-bought a scooter
-had a washing machine(first time in married life)
-got my nose pierced
-rode an elephant in the jungle
-lived over 8 months in a city where Ryan and I are the only westerners
2. Did you keep your new year's resolutions and will you make more for this year?
-Ummm, not really a new year's resolution kinda girl, so nope didn't keep them and nope won't make more this year. I think there is a lot of wisdom in what this guy says about resolutions.
3. What countries did you visit?
-Thailand twice. Once for a language learning training(outside of Bangkok) and once for a conference(outside of Chaing Mai).
4. What would you like to have in 2013 that you lacked in 2012?
- deeper friendships with Indian women
- a generator for the hot summer to keep from melting!!
- babies...
5. What dates will remain etched in your memory from 2012 and why? There are so many, but here are a few that stand out right now.
- March
the day the mother in our bonding family took my face in her hands and told me they would be my family on Easter, because I was missing my family so much
-April
the day we finally found a flat to live in! after searching for a month, I thought we would never find a place
we went to a two week language learning training. it was amazing, i learned so much more than just a method to learn a new language. it was refreshing and inspiring. unfortunately, Ryan got some crazy rash on the back of his leg...!
-June
we had some friends come spend some time in our city checking out if they wanted to move here. it was so fun showing them around and spending time with people from our church, even if it was blazing hot!
-July
went back to Thailand and got to meet a lot of new people and spend time with friends from PA. was so fun to catch up with them.
- August
Rhett came to India!! our first family member to come visit us. it was awesome because he is a pretty awesome guy, we are trying to get him to come back permanently!
our first Ramadan. we had a great time breaking the fast with friends. so many people were so inviting, i don't think i cooked dinner one time that month ;)
our first Eid. this is the festival at the end of Ramadan. again, so much fun with friends and SO.MUCH.FOOD!
-September
our friends that live in our city had their first born son in America. he only lived a few minutes before going to be with Jesus. it was so hard to be so far from them on that day, but i will always remember hearing the news while sitting in a hotel in delhi. you can read about their journey here.
-October
after a year of not seeing each other, my Mom came to India! oh my goodness, my heart was so happy. i loved every second of her being here. i didn't want her to leave, but was oh so thankful for the time she was here.
going to a wedding with our neighbors. it was the most fun day we have had in India. we spent the day(in between the important wedding stuff) playing at the Ganges with our friends. so fun!
6. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
-...umm we passed our home study. that was a GREAT achievement that brings us one step closer to baby Hartsfield.
7. What was your biggest failure?
-this question is tricky. there is a lot this past year that i have felt like a failure in. my biggest regret, not sure i would call it a failure, because failure seems so final, is that i was/still am so timid to put myself out there in trying to speak Hindi/Urdu. i have this gross tendency to want to look smart and that has caused me to not try to speak knowing i will look dumb. pride and fear....gross combination, i know.
8. Did you suffer illness or injury?
-had some stomach illnesses, but hey that is life in India...right?
9. What was the best thing you bought?
-washing machine :) so boring, huh?
-scooter, it is so much easier and faster to get places now. i do have a love/hate relationship with the scooter. i didn't know you could have so much fun and feel so freaked out at the same time. traffic in india is crazy.
-vegetable chopper, seriously it makes chopping veggies so much better....
-microwave. the convection kind that you can make cookies in. we don't have an oven, so this was a great purchase
i see a household item theme....i feel old...
10. Where did most of your money go?
-adoption
-to the above items
-plane tickets, train tickets
-a deposit on our apartment
11. What did you get really excited about?
-adoption and getting closer to bringing our little one home, even thought the paper work feels never ending....
-being able to understand and communicate deeper things with friends here in a their language. being able to understand their stories
-monsoon season...the summer was hot yall!
12. What song will always remind you of 2012?
-"For Your Splendor" by Christy Nockels. this year was extremely challenging personally and for friends in our life. this song continuously spoke to me in a deep way.
- "Some Nights" by Fun. this was our pump ourselves up song. so much time spent dancing to this song.
13. Compared to this time last year are you:
-happier or sadder? honestly...probably sadder. the last 8 months have been a pretty lonely time.
-thinner or fatter? hmmm not really sure. probably a little fatter right now, haven't had stomach problems for a while :0
-richer or poorer? richer, baby!!
14. What do you wish you would have done more of?
-pushed myself to speak more in all those hours of language learning
-danced more with my hubby(that stinking long hot summer prohibits some of my desire to dance)
15. What do you wish you would have done less of?
-being self-critical. feeling like i should be better or doing better at language/adjustment stuff
16. How did you spend Christmas?
-ate some chocolate chip muffins then headed to the train station. we were planning on a 4 hour train ride to visit some friends, but it turned into a 3 hour wait at the station and a 15 hour train ride....dang fog!
17. What was your favorite TV program?
-i know we are totally behind, but we started watching the office from season 1. i love it. michael is so hilarious and i love jim and pam(like i wish we could hang out with them)
18. What were your favorite books? this year i had a bad habit of starting books i thought i "should" read and then getting bored with them, but some of my favs were:
-Jesus Storybook Bible. i know this isn't really a "book", it is a children's bible, but it is so good!
-The Language of Flowers by Vanessa Diffenbaugh
-Luke for Everyone by NT Wright
-Saturday Nothing by Josh Martin
-Speaking of Jesus by Carl Medearis
-The Furious Longing of God by Brennan Manning
-Anything by Jennie Allen
-MWF seeking BFF by Rachel Bertsche
-Simply Jesus by NT Wright
I am currently reading-
-Tempted and Tried by Russell Moore
-Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parent Knew
19. What was your favorite music from this year?
-Andrew Peterson's new CD
-Fun
-Austin Stone's Christmas CD
-Christy Nockels new CD
-Chelsea Moon
-The Civil Wars,
-Gungor
-Phil Wickham
-i'm always wanting suggestions for new CD's esp since we live out of America now!!! suggest away.
20. What were your favorite films this year?
-oh man, we only saw a couple movies when we were in delhi. our theatre in our city only shows movies in Hindi.
-Argo was good
-counting down the days til Les Mis comes to Delhi....
21. What did you do on your birthday and how old were you?
- THIRTY!!
- two girlfriends from delhi came to visit for the weekend and we went to pizza hut with my language helper and her mom. great fun!
-got my nose pierced :)
- Ryan had some of my closest friends send me video messages for me to watch on my birthday and some written messages. he had them answer certain question about me. he then organized us to skype with his family and my family and he had asked them to answer the same questions. it was really special. so thankful he did that and so thankful for such great friends and family.
22. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
-i loved the opportunities we have had to grown in friendship with locals, but having a community of Jesus followers would have been a great thing.
23. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2012?
-haha, bright colors. actually, in a lot of ways i just bought close quickly because i had to get a whole new wardrobe. now, i am more aware of the styles here and hopefully this year i can grow into my own American living in India style ;)
24. What kept you sane?
-Ryan-words can't express how amazing he is and how patient he is with me
-Family
-Friends
-Skype
-the mall with an AC during the summer when our power was out
-lots and lots of God's grace and remembering how Jesus experienced everything we have experienced
25. What is a valuable life lesson you learned in 2012?
- i can't do things in my own strength, not matter how hard i try.
Dear 2012, you were a lot more difficult than I expected and I am sure there are things that we experienced that may take many years to understand, but God has been faithful and he has given us exactly what we needed exactly when we needed it. Bring on 2013 :)
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1. What did you do in 2012 that you have never done before?
-lived with a Muslim Indian family of 8 in a 2 room house
-bought a scooter
-had a washing machine(first time in married life)
-got my nose pierced
-rode an elephant in the jungle
-lived over 8 months in a city where Ryan and I are the only westerners
2. Did you keep your new year's resolutions and will you make more for this year?
-Ummm, not really a new year's resolution kinda girl, so nope didn't keep them and nope won't make more this year. I think there is a lot of wisdom in what this guy says about resolutions.
3. What countries did you visit?
-Thailand twice. Once for a language learning training(outside of Bangkok) and once for a conference(outside of Chaing Mai).
4. What would you like to have in 2013 that you lacked in 2012?
- deeper friendships with Indian women
- a generator for the hot summer to keep from melting!!
- babies...
5. What dates will remain etched in your memory from 2012 and why? There are so many, but here are a few that stand out right now.
- March
the day the mother in our bonding family took my face in her hands and told me they would be my family on Easter, because I was missing my family so much
-April
the day we finally found a flat to live in! after searching for a month, I thought we would never find a place
we went to a two week language learning training. it was amazing, i learned so much more than just a method to learn a new language. it was refreshing and inspiring. unfortunately, Ryan got some crazy rash on the back of his leg...!
-June
we had some friends come spend some time in our city checking out if they wanted to move here. it was so fun showing them around and spending time with people from our church, even if it was blazing hot!
-July
went back to Thailand and got to meet a lot of new people and spend time with friends from PA. was so fun to catch up with them.
- August
Rhett came to India!! our first family member to come visit us. it was awesome because he is a pretty awesome guy, we are trying to get him to come back permanently!
our first Ramadan. we had a great time breaking the fast with friends. so many people were so inviting, i don't think i cooked dinner one time that month ;)
our first Eid. this is the festival at the end of Ramadan. again, so much fun with friends and SO.MUCH.FOOD!
-September
our friends that live in our city had their first born son in America. he only lived a few minutes before going to be with Jesus. it was so hard to be so far from them on that day, but i will always remember hearing the news while sitting in a hotel in delhi. you can read about their journey here.
-October
after a year of not seeing each other, my Mom came to India! oh my goodness, my heart was so happy. i loved every second of her being here. i didn't want her to leave, but was oh so thankful for the time she was here.
going to a wedding with our neighbors. it was the most fun day we have had in India. we spent the day(in between the important wedding stuff) playing at the Ganges with our friends. so fun!
6. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
-...umm we passed our home study. that was a GREAT achievement that brings us one step closer to baby Hartsfield.
7. What was your biggest failure?
-this question is tricky. there is a lot this past year that i have felt like a failure in. my biggest regret, not sure i would call it a failure, because failure seems so final, is that i was/still am so timid to put myself out there in trying to speak Hindi/Urdu. i have this gross tendency to want to look smart and that has caused me to not try to speak knowing i will look dumb. pride and fear....gross combination, i know.
8. Did you suffer illness or injury?
-had some stomach illnesses, but hey that is life in India...right?
9. What was the best thing you bought?
-washing machine :) so boring, huh?
-scooter, it is so much easier and faster to get places now. i do have a love/hate relationship with the scooter. i didn't know you could have so much fun and feel so freaked out at the same time. traffic in india is crazy.
-vegetable chopper, seriously it makes chopping veggies so much better....
-microwave. the convection kind that you can make cookies in. we don't have an oven, so this was a great purchase
i see a household item theme....i feel old...
10. Where did most of your money go?
-adoption
-to the above items
-plane tickets, train tickets
-a deposit on our apartment
11. What did you get really excited about?
-adoption and getting closer to bringing our little one home, even thought the paper work feels never ending....
-being able to understand and communicate deeper things with friends here in a their language. being able to understand their stories
-monsoon season...the summer was hot yall!
12. What song will always remind you of 2012?
-"For Your Splendor" by Christy Nockels. this year was extremely challenging personally and for friends in our life. this song continuously spoke to me in a deep way.
- "Some Nights" by Fun. this was our pump ourselves up song. so much time spent dancing to this song.
13. Compared to this time last year are you:
-happier or sadder? honestly...probably sadder. the last 8 months have been a pretty lonely time.
-thinner or fatter? hmmm not really sure. probably a little fatter right now, haven't had stomach problems for a while :0
-richer or poorer? richer, baby!!
14. What do you wish you would have done more of?
-pushed myself to speak more in all those hours of language learning
-danced more with my hubby(that stinking long hot summer prohibits some of my desire to dance)
15. What do you wish you would have done less of?
-being self-critical. feeling like i should be better or doing better at language/adjustment stuff
16. How did you spend Christmas?
-ate some chocolate chip muffins then headed to the train station. we were planning on a 4 hour train ride to visit some friends, but it turned into a 3 hour wait at the station and a 15 hour train ride....dang fog!
17. What was your favorite TV program?
-i know we are totally behind, but we started watching the office from season 1. i love it. michael is so hilarious and i love jim and pam(like i wish we could hang out with them)
18. What were your favorite books? this year i had a bad habit of starting books i thought i "should" read and then getting bored with them, but some of my favs were:
-Jesus Storybook Bible. i know this isn't really a "book", it is a children's bible, but it is so good!
-The Language of Flowers by Vanessa Diffenbaugh
-Luke for Everyone by NT Wright
-Saturday Nothing by Josh Martin
-Speaking of Jesus by Carl Medearis
-The Furious Longing of God by Brennan Manning
-Anything by Jennie Allen
-MWF seeking BFF by Rachel Bertsche
-Simply Jesus by NT Wright
I am currently reading-
-Tempted and Tried by Russell Moore
-Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parent Knew
19. What was your favorite music from this year?
-Andrew Peterson's new CD
-Fun
-Austin Stone's Christmas CD
-Christy Nockels new CD
-Chelsea Moon
-The Civil Wars,
-Gungor
-Phil Wickham
-i'm always wanting suggestions for new CD's esp since we live out of America now!!! suggest away.
20. What were your favorite films this year?
-oh man, we only saw a couple movies when we were in delhi. our theatre in our city only shows movies in Hindi.
-Argo was good
-counting down the days til Les Mis comes to Delhi....
21. What did you do on your birthday and how old were you?
- THIRTY!!
- two girlfriends from delhi came to visit for the weekend and we went to pizza hut with my language helper and her mom. great fun!
-got my nose pierced :)
- Ryan had some of my closest friends send me video messages for me to watch on my birthday and some written messages. he had them answer certain question about me. he then organized us to skype with his family and my family and he had asked them to answer the same questions. it was really special. so thankful he did that and so thankful for such great friends and family.
22. What one thing would have made your year immeasurably more satisfying?
-i loved the opportunities we have had to grown in friendship with locals, but having a community of Jesus followers would have been a great thing.
23. How would you describe your personal fashion concept in 2012?
-haha, bright colors. actually, in a lot of ways i just bought close quickly because i had to get a whole new wardrobe. now, i am more aware of the styles here and hopefully this year i can grow into my own American living in India style ;)
24. What kept you sane?
-Ryan-words can't express how amazing he is and how patient he is with me
-Family
-Friends
-Skype
-the mall with an AC during the summer when our power was out
-lots and lots of God's grace and remembering how Jesus experienced everything we have experienced
25. What is a valuable life lesson you learned in 2012?
- i can't do things in my own strength, not matter how hard i try.
Dear 2012, you were a lot more difficult than I expected and I am sure there are things that we experienced that may take many years to understand, but God has been faithful and he has given us exactly what we needed exactly when we needed it. Bring on 2013 :)
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I love this! Gonna be completely unspiritual here and say that I'm so glad you started watching The Office and of course you would be friends with Jim and Pam!!! I love them.. and Michael. And I love that you love Some Nights by Fun. It's one of my favorites. I got the Jesus Storybook Bible for Christmas and I love it!!! I love you friend!! More than you can imagine. so thankful for you and Ryan. miss you much!! oh yeah and adoption... come on Baby Hartsfield!!!!
ReplyDeleteyou are a great writer and your honesty is refreshing. living outside of america is a challenge no matter what country you live in because for each one of us it stretches our comfort zones and as you said in an earlier post, there is a lonliness that is hard to manage. love you kristin. i have a good young friend who is a new home schooler and she is very creative. she has 4 children and they are going to be studying india. if she contacted you would you have time to share a bit about india and maybe even do a skype call??? i gave her your blog site so she can learn more about your experiences. her name is heather hoover.
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